Accept personal responsibility for emotions while releasing blame
Polyamory is hard as fuck.
The first thing that's going to happen is that all of your deepest fears, control dramas, and personal fuckery are going to come up. Having access to a healthy, wisdom-based support system is absolutely crucial to easing your journey into polyamory. You can read all the books, all the blogs, and watch all the videos, but having real people who can hold space for you while simultaneously pushing you to stretch your understanding of the world and yourself is invaluable. We are creating the resources we wish we'd had 15 years ago.
Our approach with our clients is without a polyamorous agenda (which is very similar to the Gay Agenda, but, you know, more people). Polyamory is not for everyone, and we will be lovingly candid with you about the tools you'll need to harness to figure out what is best for you. Most importantly we will advocate for and empower you to live your truth and stay true to your values.
DISCLAIMER: Peer Support is not therapy, and we are not licensed therapists. But we and many of our wonderful colleagues make excellent additions to any support team.
We also have a free Discord you can email us to join, which is a modest but supportive little digital village.