ABOUT JESSICA

Jessica is a queer, polyamorous mama and full time content creator, author, and app developer with a BA in Philosophy, Sociology, and a minor in LGBT Studies from UW-Madison. In 2021 she was named "1 of 10 Polyamory Experts You Should Be Following" by Cosmo.

Jessica is also a successful speaker, educator, producer, and storyteller with over 20 years of professional experience, both on the stage and as a live broadcaster. Jessica works with groups, individuals, and organizations to expand the cultural narrative on healthy relationships, emotional intelligence, and polyamory.

SIGNATURE TOPICS

  • Polyamory & Relationship Anarchy
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  • Polyamory & Parenthood
 
  • Emotional Intelligence
 
  • Demisexuality
 
  • Honest Motherhood
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  • ​Nuclear Fusion App—Helping Folks Find, Build, & Sustain Modern Villages & Chosen Family

CURRENT KEYNOTES/WORKSHOPS


​>> All Keynote titles are 60 minute presentations that can also be turned into half-day and full-day seminars.
​>> Titles & Workshops may be mixed and matched to meet the client’s vision.
>> Jessica can also create custom talks/workshops with 30-day notice.

​Defying Gravity:
Intro to Relationship Anarchy

You’ve been lied to—monogamy isn’t the only or most ethical relationship style. In this workshop, you'll explore the limitless ways to customize relationships, and challenge the hierarchy that elevates romantic/sexual love above all else.

Polyamory & Parenthood

A funny and informative presentation journeying best and worst parts of being a polyamorous parent, based on our book of the same name. Followed by an Ask Us Anything (and we sincerely mean ANYTHING).

Pregnancy, Birth, & The Village

(for birthworkers and mental health providers)
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"It takes a village" is often said to expecting parents, yet many—especially birth workers and perinatal mental health providers—struggle with unseen biases about relationships and perinatal care. Jessica will help uncover these assumptions, inviting folks to create new narratives, creating safer, more inclusive birthing spaces.

How to Throw A Sex Party
(Even a Demisexual, Neurodivergent, First-Timer Will Love)

​A hilarious presentation detailing the process of adventuring into the world of throwing highly curated and intentional sex parties, followed by an "ask us anything" (and we sincerely mean ANYTHING).

Polyamory 101

When Electric Forest invited Jessica to give a workshop in 2023, they asked her to present "Polyamory 101"—but she quickly realized that such a thing doesn’t truly exist. In this talk, Jessica explores the cultural context of Polyamory, and why there is no “beginner-friendly” level to it.

AS SEEN AT

  • Electric Forest Music Festival, 2023 & 2024
  • 2024 Sex and Perinatal Mental Health Conference
  • Southwest Love Fest 2023
  • University of Denver (SOWK 4990)
  • TEDxReno, 2016

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